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If you’ve started making a list of the best kitchen utensils, bedding and linens, necessities and other items to include in your wedding registry, and you’re feeling a little – or very – confused, we understand. : to add and what to ignore can be quite daunting, especially since the options can seem endless (and falling down a rabbit hole of reviews can often end up being…not so fun).
“We love a well-rounded wedding registry, and we strongly encourage our couples to be intentional and thoughtful when it comes to signing up for gifts for their engagement or wedding celebration,” says Ness McGovern, owner and designer of Ness McGovern Events and Design, based in Bergen County, New Jersey. “We try to help our couples sign up for a concise list of items that will serve their lives well, in a range of price options for their guests.”
What should couples put on their wedding registry?
So what should these elements be? “We’ve seen it all — there are definitely some couples who don’t mind putting lingerie or gaming chairs on their registry,” McGovern says. Her advice, however, is to stick with more tried and tested options, whether it’s kitchen utensils, a statement rug or tableware and perhaps avoid super personal items, like sunglasses or shoes. “Unless, of course, you’re known as the person with a huge collection of shoes, in which case customers might know how to get them for you from the start,” she says.
Recently, McGovern has seen a trend of signing up for furniture and housewares, largely due to the time we’ve been at home during the pandemic. Donations are also popular: “A lot of my couples give back a lot,” says JoAnn Moore, master wedding planner at JoAnn Moore Wedding, Design and Event Planning in Vail, Colorado and the Lake Tahoe area. “Many ask for donations to their favorite charities instead of gifts.” For example, a bride she worked with, who was a breast cancer survivor, asked the organization for donations. Susan G. Komen.
Can couples request cash or gift cards instead of having a wedding registry?
For couples who prefer cash, McGovern recommends skipping a registry or opting for a small registry with items just for the shower or any other pre-wedding event. “After this event, the registry is deleted,” she says. “That means you prefer cash or in-kind gifts,” she says.
For her part, Moore doesn’t recommend asking for money or gift cards, but says that including details about your history as a couple, such as hobbies and activities, on the wedding website can help inspire guests to purchase a gift card or make a donation. who supports these interests. For example, a couple whose wedding website details their avid hiking adventures might inspire guests to get the couple’s gift cards from stores like REI.
Where should couples put their registry details? Can you add a registry to an invite?
It depends on the events you are hosting: for a shower, include the information on your invitation. The wedding? Both experts said not to write it directly on the invitation, as it is not considered good etiquette. “A modern alternative is to include registry information [as] a separate invitation insert or direct guests to a wedding website for more information,” says McGovern.
How should couples handle unregistered gifts?
Sometimes, especially if it’s a close family member or friend who knows you and your future spouse well, receiving an unregistered gift can be great, say our experts. Otherwise, graciously accept. “A gift is a gift and saying thank you for any thoughtful gift should be appreciated by the couple, even if it’s not on the registry,” Moore says.
How do couples know they’re signing up for quality stuff?
This is where the Good Housekeeping Institute comes in. The Institute tests home products of all types, evaluating them for quality, durability, functionality and other factors.
Here we have gathered the 50 best wedding registry ideas for 2022based on expert-approved selections from the Good Housekeeping Institute, plus other bestsellers and editor’s favorites.